Dream simulation

We, the living beings are driven by stimulation. The same stimulation that stimulates a girl to like pink and boy to work harder on himself. Stimulation and need are the two things man hasdone whatever he has done till now.

A stimulation is something that “makes someone do something” and that becomes a need when he “cannot achieve it easily”.

Teenagers often confuse between their infatuation and love. They say, “I need you”, “the precious possession of my life is you”. This is easily understood after few years or so that that was not love but an infatuation. So how this infatuation thing works?

It is nothing but the stimuli that starts with hormone activities that secrets the pleasant effect when we see, hear, smell something likeable or different. Then start getting into it. When obstacles come in between we try solve it in order to overcome it. In doing so we involve ourselves into it. By the time we can judge ourselves how much “really” want that to please us we already make the “stimuli” a target to achieve. This is how we end us longing for it- stating it as our “need”.

We experience this in our daily life too. What we are looking for and what we actually want we confude betwen them. Just by doing that our brain registers some “stubborn points” those are a “need” but left unworked upon. You may imagine a stack of jobs to be done in a day, some of which you know you may not achieve it today but still you stack them u in your “to-do” list. For some daily routine tasks or for some external issues these tasks stay stacked in your stack. And these become an obsession for the brain to complete that task.

Now here how our brain interprets it.Though our concious mind is happy achieving daily routines of the day our unconcious mind that deals with the unfulfiling desires or tasks collect those stacked tasks to work upon. The unconcious mind weaves a same envvironment, weather, smell, taste, and other identical behaviours from our real life exerience to work upopn those stacked tasks. For example, suppose a football player on the field earlier that day attempts to hit a nuckle shot for a free kick but fails, our unconconcious mind would create a football field, the same goal post that has rust on the left bar, the mud on the left side of the ground and the orange color sky from the sunset for the player to practise the nuckle shot over and over again until the ball goes into the goal. Even if the ball doesn’t go into the goal your “sleeping instincts” would measure the inch distance by which the player is missing the goal. On the next try or so the ball would go in the goal even if he has hit the ball the exact same way he did in his early tries.

So what des it benefits us? You see it is just a simulation that made the ball go into the goal the last time after your unconcious mind has measured the distance by which the ball missed the goal even after he shot it the same way. So this “dream pratise” of his convinced him that he can actually shoot the nuckle ball into the goal. Thus giving him that confidence to be on the pitch the next time when he really hits the nuckle ball. Now this is why they say an athelete should take a long sound sleep after a hard practice, to perfect their flaws and “gain more confidence about his game”.

                                                                         General Fear

Dream not only gives us a portal to rectify us but at times it makes us strong too. Suppose a girl named, Dimple who is afraid of ghosts and stuffs. She obviously has had experiences in her life which the scared the hell out of her. That's how she and others have concludedshe is afraid of ghosts. Her brain surely has registered the notable subjects when she was afraid, say the partial darkness of room, lit candes, flickering lights, or even narrow lane down the road.

Dimple's unconcious would certain tend to workk on this fear of her because there are eeking heights of the attention being drawn by her brain for fear. Her brain would simulate the sasme subjects for which she might get afraid of.

Sometimes in dream we see ourselves and are very certain to point that that person is me whom I am seeing. This is the situation where we can understand that we are in simulation from our real life experience and can understand and analyse what and all is going on in that simulation. Now, this girl Dimple gets scared of a certain event triggered by her unconcious inrder to scare her. And our girl freaks out, in physical behaviour she changes her pose of sleep or she sweats. And the Dimple that is still concious in the sleep analyses that it is just a dream and still she gets scared of the simulation tries to face it which reflects on the dream resulting the "sleepy girl" Dimpleto act to resist her fear and to walk through the lane down the road. Dimple has known all her life that the lane was scary and she has walked through the main road where vehicles honk and street lights glow. For her the target to overome will be to wlak through the lane only. So the next time our girl has to walk through the dark lane her senses would be firing to stay aware and she will be confident enough inside to face the journey through the lane.

	Behavioral Fear

 

Some fears are internal fears, such as fear of losing someone, fear of kicking a ball, fear of climbing. In other words people fear to do ceertain work or fear of certain situations. In certain cases termed as Phobia.

For instance, a person Amy is afraid to be isolated(not in compartments) but in a position in life. ‘Any’ is the same person but in her dream(a dream-self). Whenever she  faces any kind of rejection or lonliness or separation from her group or friends she undergoes an isolated phase.

Now, Amy goes to sleep and dreams a neverending dream and creeps. In her dream she sees others minimising in size while parting far away from her. As she fears this situation even after knowing that she is dreaming this moment her concious mind becomes numb and sees the same. Because of this her fear of others leaving her emphasizes and her brain registers a bad experience about “separation”(or synonyms of the same). So whenever she faces this type of ituation in real life she simulates the same moment with her dream and the same stimuli works for her brain in reacting the same while she was dreaming-  sweating, uncomfortable, and very importantly ‘numb’, that part that her concious mind reacted when she was dreaming.

Now, you might be thinking how this phobia demolished in the first place? The initialisation of it was not that difficult, say in Amy’s case her best-friend had move away abroad for her father’s transfer when both were little. That delicate memory was churned in sleep and weaved an even bigger imagination in mind, which then Amy compared relevance in real lfe and Any weaved even bad imagination that then reflected back to Amy’s life and exaggerated by Any.

So, is there a treatment? A solution? Ofcourse there’s. It may seems difficult to you if you are Amy. As in this type of cases you see both persons Amy and Any reflect on each other’s personality. One has to approach many people to associate with others to break through the isolated situation which will effect Any to weave a rather easy situation in that department.